The path of change is filled with joy and happiness, but also with misunderstanding, resentment, envy and rejection. It takes courage and your clear focus on your heart and goal to cope with the resistance your environment poses. There will be people who are not at all excited about how you develop. There will be friends who doubt you, your way anyway, and who, after a while, say goodbye to you.
There are usually some people in your circle of friends who do not understand what's wrong with you, who suspect your changes, and even scary ones.
Do you know what's so scary for these people, and why they're angry, annoyed, or even hurtful to you? For one, they are angry with you because you are no longer predictable. You do not let yourself be used for your purposes and do not say yes to everything and amen what is suggested to you. On the other hand, these people are inwardly angry with themselves for doing something they are not brave enough to do. As long as there are people in your environment who listen more to the opinions of others than to their own inner voice, you too will fall into disrepute with your trust in your inner voice in them.
The simplest and the hardest thing is that you have to set new limits for yourself.
You have to decide which people in your environment are good for you, and distance yourself from those who are no longer good for you. At the beginning of your personality development this will be a hard lesson to learn. Often you will stumble, doubt, but one day you will realize how important these decisions are to you. Any change you make in and out of yourself will create envy, resentment, and anger in at least one other. Even if it is (only) about rebuilding your business. Because that too is changing with you. And what was still coherent yesterday and loved by all tomorrow will be considered tomorrow as a new aspect with cancellations or the like.
How strong are you anchored in yourself?
How deep do you accept such rejections?
As long as you resonate with that, there is still a sore point in it. If you are neutral and clear in you, such encounters will no longer affect you. And then suddenly a miracle happens! For all of a sudden, loving, constructive, admiring messages reach you. You open your mailbox and find an e-mail in which a stranger gives you his heart, how wonderful your way is, how brave you are and how much you enrich your life with your being. Even both happened to me. On the one hand, weird and also hurtful messages from people who were close to me and whom I thought to be good friends by my side - and, on the other hand, touching mails that show me that there are great people who like me as well, like I am. Exactly these mails, these touches are why I do not care anymore what others are talking about and thinking about me. I have always had my own head, very often met with incomprehension and learn to deal with it neutrally, lovingly and clearly every day. I heard a nice word today - unruly - yes, that was me for years too. Today I am a bit softer in my comments, but just as clear about it. It was a tough school for me until I realized that clarity does not always have to turn into anger if it encounters incomprehension.
For a long time I was also allowed to learn not to refer all hostility and criticism to me, or to defend myself immediately. That alone is worth a lot to me and today I am grateful for the many teachers who gave me the life to master this task. So you see, your change may be valuable and worthwhile for you, but there will always be one or the other who does not like it.
Do not be discouraged on your path of change.
Find new friends and like-minded people to talk to and bravely go your own way.
Even if it means that you are going the way of your change temporarily alone.
𝔏𝔬𝔳𝔢 & 𝔏𝔦𝔤𝔥𝔱𝔰 (¯`·._)𝒜r𝓋𝑒𝓃 ♥.•´¯`•.¸¸.•..:*´¨`*:.☆💗